39 Flirting Tips That Could Make A Girl Fall Helplessly In Love With You Today


  • Don't make the conversation sexual immediately .

  • Allow her to borrow your jacket when she is cold.

  • Make her swoon when she hugs you by wearing a cologne.

  • Don’t let go too quickly during those hugs. Let yourself linger.

  • Clean up your apartment before she gets there. Portray the illusion that you’re a responsible adult.

  • Tell her how much you like her, so she’s not left guessing how you feel.

  • If you have tattoos or muscles, wear a shirt that shows them off. Let her see how sexy you are.

  • But don’t forget about showing her how smart you are. Initiate a conversation about a topic you’re knowledgable about, so you can look intelligent.

  • When she sits down on a couch or a bench, sit right next to her instead of on the other end.

  • If another guy looks at her, it’s okay if she realizes you’re jealous, but don’t let her see you get pissed. It’s a turn-off.

  • When you have food (or gum) with you, offer her some.

  • Tease her–but playfully. In a way that lets her know you aren’t seriously being mean to her.
  • Introduce her to your dog.

  • Give her a cute nickname. Not “baby” or “honey.” Something personalized.

  • Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t waste her time with mixed signals.

  • Ask her to dance.

  • Remember pointless little things about her, like her favorite cereal and her father’s name.

  • When she catches you staring, smile at her, so she doesn’t get creeped out.

  • Introduce her to your friends and to your parents.

  • When you ask her out, don’t invite her over to watch Netflix. Invite her to an actual diner where you can have an actual conversation.

  • Text her first with a message that says more than just, “hey.”

  • Instead of complimenting her on her legs, compliment her on an aspect of her personality.

  • Touch her in a non-invasive spot, like the shoulder, and if she’s receptive, you can gradually touch her more and more.

  • Shake her hand after you introduce yourself to show you’re a gentleman.

  • If you’re sitting while she’s standing in a crowded bus or bar, offer your chair to her.

  • Ask her questions about herself, but not the boring ones like, “How was your weekend?.

  • Act like you like yourself. Confidence matters.

  • Stare into her eyes as she’s talking. But let her catch you checking her out later on.

  • Give her a massage.

  • Stay far, far away from pick-up lines.

  • But feel free to tell funny stories. True anecdotes beat overused jokes.

  • Like her selfies.

  • Ask her what TV shows she watches. If you find out you both loved Lost , you’ll have an hour’s worth of conversation.

  • Use (a few) emoticons when you text, so she realizes when you’re trying to be flirty.

  • Don’t talk about other girls. Don’t look at other girls.

  • Whenever she says something negative about herself, give her a compliment.

  • If she complains about wanting to see a certain movie that her friends aren’t interested in, ask her to see the movie with you.

  • Text her at all different times of the day. If you’re always texting at night, she’ll get the wrong idea. Plus, women love good morning texts.

  • If you message her on a dating app, mention something from her bio instead of something from her picture.

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